Why do we say yes when we mean no? Why do we say no when deep down we wish we could say yes? These are questions that dig beneath the surface of our everyday choices, revealing the deeper, often hidden stories we tell ourselves. In his insightful discussions, Dr. Gabor Maté highlights a core conflict many of us experience: we prioritise attachment over authenticity. Whether it’s in our relationships, careers, or even financial decisions, we often […]
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The season of giving
“Philanthropy is not about money, it’s about feeling the pain of others and caring enough about their needs to help.” – Timothy Pina We often have the privilege of working with clients who have reached a point where their wealth not only opens doors to personal opportunities but also bears the potential to enact significant societal change. Strategic philanthropy has emerged as a pivotal avenue for high net-worth individuals looking to forge a lasting legacy. At […]
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Healthier benchmarks
WHERE DO YOU ‘THINK’ YOU SHOULD BE? Reflecting on our progress is something we all do, but often without knowing it. Whether we’re aware of it or not, several times a day, we measure ourselves against something or someone—be it our past self, others, or some societal ideal. Whether it’s consciously deciding to check in on our progress, or doing so unconsciously, benchmarks are always being set. These benchmarks could be internal or external, and they […]
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The art of controlled relaxation
“Precision in archery comes from the art of controlled relaxation. The same can be said about managing our financial lives.” — Inspired by Maurice Thompson Modern life often stretches us thin, much like a bow drawn tight. This state holds immense potential, yet is fraught with tension. The key lies not just in the strength to hold the draw but in the skill to release it effectively. In managing life’s demands—from work to family—we must learn […]
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Roadblocks and reflections
Life is full of roadblocks. They come in many forms: an unexpected expense, a career setback, a strained relationship, or even just a sense of stagnation. At first glance, these challenges can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and even unfair. But what if we stopped seeing roadblocks as something meant to halt our progress and instead viewed them as opportunities to pause, reflect, and redirect? Every obstacle we encounter forces us to ask important questions: Am I on […]
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Sign that Will!
A will might not seem like the most exciting thing on your pre-vacation checklist, but it’s arguably one of the most important. Mark Twain once said, “The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” It’s a confronting, yet profound reminder that planning for the inevitable is just part of living a well-considered life. And yet, when it comes to writing and signing […]
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Do you choose happiness?
“Decide to be happy; it is good for your health.” — Voltaire At WellsFaber, we believe that happiness is an active choice, especially when it comes to managing your finances. Abraham Lincoln once noted that people are generally as happy as they decide to be, implying that our well-being hinges not just on external circumstances but significantly on our internal decisions. Imagine treating money as a tool—not merely a means to accumulate material wealth, but as […]
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Dealing with loss when everyone else is celebrating
Holidays and special occasions often bring with them the joy of celebration, the warmth of shared moments, and the comfort of togetherness. Yet, for many, they also highlight the quiet ache of loss. Whether it’s the empty chair at the dinner table, the sting of a recent job loss, or the ongoing battle with a serious illness, these moments can magnify pain that is otherwise neatly tucked away in the everyday busyness of life. Dr. Susan […]
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Ready for a financial health checkup?
Have you ever noticed how similar financial wellness is to physical health? Just as we visit doctors for regular check-ups, perhaps it’s time for a different kind of examination – one that focuses on your financial health! Let’s step into this unique doctor’s office together. Patient History Do any of these symptoms sound familiar? – Occasional (or frequent) money anxiety – A strong desire for financial certainty – Dreams of a comfortable retirement that seem just […]
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Unlocking what freedom means for you
“Financial freedom is not a single goal, but a series of choices leading towards a life unbound.” — Unknown For many, the concept of financial freedom evokes images of a bird soaring high in the sky — free, untethered, and full of potential. Conversely, money can sometimes feel like a weight or a cage, limiting our movement and keeping us grounded in worries and obligations. Yet, it’s also the very tool that can unlock the door […]
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