“Las Vegas is busy every day, so we know that not everyone is rational.” – Charles Ellis Gambling can be seen as harmless fun and an easy way to make money, but when it gets out of hand – it can be a problem. It can quickly get out of hand because it’s highly emotionally charged and those in the game seldom stick to rational decision-making. We see these same challenges with investing, and the emotional […]
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Finding the healthy positive
Everything we know, believe, and feel is based on our internal thoughts. Positive thinking gives us extraordinary power over our thinking and ourselves (Strycharczyk & Clough, 2015). Some people are exceptional; they always seem to remain positive regardless of what lemons are tossed their way. You know the type, the every-cloud-has-a-silver-lining, glass-half-full, things-will-get-better type of people. We love to have them around when we need their support, but we can also envy their seemingly relentless positive […]
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Ready and Willing
Here’s the thing about financial planning: we don’t plan out of fear; we plan so that we can extend our peace of mind. This is why wills form such a key role in our planning. However, engaging in this process can be clumsy, confusing, and a little hairy, and as Ricky Gervais once said, where there’s a will – there’s a relative! We need to talk about wills and estate planning so that we can remove […]
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Messy, not perfect
It’s hard not to become fixated on getting things perfect. It may not be in all areas of our lives, but for almost all of us, we have skills, relationships and responsibilities where we want to show up as perfect. As Dave and Hester Vaughan (yourjourneyforlife.com) often say, “Messy, not perfect!” This is a great reminder that we mustn’t fall into the perfectionism trap. If we do, we will find piles and piles of frustration. As […]
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Creating new money stories
“The greatest damage done by neglect, trauma or emotional loss is not the immediate pain they inflict but the long-term distortions they induce in the way a developing child will continue to interpret the world and her situation in it.” – Gabor Maté All of us believe the stories that we tell ourselves; some of the stories are true, but many are not. When we feel frustrated with life and limited by our beliefs or situations, […]
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Cruise through a cost-of-living crisis
No one likes to plan for a time when we might not have enough money to make ends meet. Often, when we plan or make financial decisions, we assume that our future self will have enough money to pay for the decisions we make today. Sometimes this turns out to be accurate, but sometimes it doesn’t. And, if the economy slumps and we have a cost-of-living crisis, the pressure on our finances can be debilitating. Before […]
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7 Boundaries to set
“If someone throws a fit because you set a boundary, it’s just more evidence the boundary is needed.” – Unknown. If you’re feeling exhausted and overcome by the obligations and expectations of everyday life, you’re not alone. And it’s not because we can’t cope with the same things our parents did; our culture has become infinitely more demanding. Having a real-world life and a concurrent digital life has also taken the agitations, frustrations and exasperations of […]
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The importance of boundaries
Every day we make decisions to live a life of our choosing. But yet, when asked about what our ideal life could look like, it’s often quite different from the one we’re living right now. Our decisions link our current life to the life we’d like. With every decision, we’re either establishing a new boundary, moving a boundary or removing a boundary. Unfortunately, if we spend too much time removing boundaries, we will become increasingly frustrated, […]
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From bags to riches
We often think of things like stocks, bonds, mutual funds, annuities and assets as investments. But, investments are a broad area. According to Investopedia, an investment involves putting capital to use today to increase its value over time. An investment requires putting capital to work, in the form of time, money, effort, etc., in hopes of a more significant payoff in the future than what was initially put in. With the increased use of technology to […]
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Mental fitness can actually help you live longer
“So long as the Saboteurs [negative voices in your head] are pushing you to your level of success, you will never be happy, because every step of the way is littered with negativity.” – Shirzad Chamine We often work with clients who have achieved much in their careers but are still feeling frustrated or unfulfilled. It’s not just the stress of a high-paced life or the imbalance of work and life, it’s something deeper. Shirzad […]
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