WHERE DO YOU ‘THINK’ YOU SHOULD BE? Reflecting on our progress is something we all do, but often without knowing it. Whether we’re aware of it or not, several times a day, we measure ourselves against something or someone—be it our past self, others, or some societal ideal. Whether it’s consciously deciding to check in on our progress, or doing so unconsciously, benchmarks are always being set. These benchmarks could be internal or external, and they […]
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The art of controlled relaxation
“Precision in archery comes from the art of controlled relaxation. The same can be said about managing our financial lives.” — Inspired by Maurice Thompson Modern life often stretches us thin, much like a bow drawn tight. This state holds immense potential, yet is fraught with tension. The key lies not just in the strength to hold the draw but in the skill to release it effectively. In managing life’s demands—from work to family—we must learn […]
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Roadblocks and reflections
Life is full of roadblocks. They come in many forms: an unexpected expense, a career setback, a strained relationship, or even just a sense of stagnation. At first glance, these challenges can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and even unfair. But what if we stopped seeing roadblocks as something meant to halt our progress and instead viewed them as opportunities to pause, reflect, and redirect? Every obstacle we encounter forces us to ask important questions: Am I on […]
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Sign that Will!
A will might not seem like the most exciting thing on your pre-vacation checklist, but it’s arguably one of the most important. Mark Twain once said, “The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” It’s a confronting, yet profound reminder that planning for the inevitable is just part of living a well-considered life. And yet, when it comes to writing and signing […]
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Do you choose happiness?
“Decide to be happy; it is good for your health.” — Voltaire At WellsFaber, we believe that happiness is an active choice, especially when it comes to managing your finances. Abraham Lincoln once noted that people are generally as happy as they decide to be, implying that our well-being hinges not just on external circumstances but significantly on our internal decisions. Imagine treating money as a tool—not merely a means to accumulate material wealth, but as […]
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Dealing with loss when everyone else is celebrating
Holidays and special occasions often bring with them the joy of celebration, the warmth of shared moments, and the comfort of togetherness. Yet, for many, they also highlight the quiet ache of loss. Whether it’s the empty chair at the dinner table, the sting of a recent job loss, or the ongoing battle with a serious illness, these moments can magnify pain that is otherwise neatly tucked away in the everyday busyness of life. Dr. Susan […]
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Ready for a financial health checkup?
Have you ever noticed how similar financial wellness is to physical health? Just as we visit doctors for regular check-ups, perhaps it’s time for a different kind of examination – one that focuses on your financial health! Let’s step into this unique doctor’s office together. Patient History Do any of these symptoms sound familiar? – Occasional (or frequent) money anxiety – A strong desire for financial certainty – Dreams of a comfortable retirement that seem just […]
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Unlocking what freedom means for you
“Financial freedom is not a single goal, but a series of choices leading towards a life unbound.” — Unknown For many, the concept of financial freedom evokes images of a bird soaring high in the sky — free, untethered, and full of potential. Conversely, money can sometimes feel like a weight or a cage, limiting our movement and keeping us grounded in worries and obligations. Yet, it’s also the very tool that can unlock the door […]
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Echo chambers and our money
Have you ever noticed how a conversation with people who share your views can make you feel more strongly about what you already believe? Legal scholar Cass Sunstein captured this phenomenon perfectly when he observed, “What we know is if you get groups of like-minded people together, they tend to end up thinking a more extreme version of what they thought before they started to talk.” This observation isn’t just about politics or social issues – […]
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Your family’s financial health
“Patience and time do more than strength or passion.” — Jean de La Fontaine At WellsFaber, we’ve had the privilege of guiding many families through the evolving seasons of life. In a world that often prioritises instant results, the natural progression of seasons teaches us a valuable lesson about growth and patience. Understanding and planning for your family’s financial health across these seasons is crucial—not just for immediate needs, but for securing the well-being of future […]
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